4/25/2014

Growing Up With Artist Alexander Koleszar

By Essie Osborn


In the world of modern art, one name really stands out as this man serves as an inspiration not only to aspiring artists but to anyone going through hurdles in life. This man is Alexander Koleszar and is known to be one of the best modern painters in the country. Although many people see him as a very successful artist, many do not know the hardships he had to endure before getting there.

This man grew up in Michigan to a family wherein the men believe that masculinity is the only way to go and that men should not act any other way. Now the thing was that not only his family had that kind of thinking but everyone else in the town as well. This was quite an issue because Koleszar was actually a closet gay and an introvert.

Things were very hard for him while growing up because while other boys were playing rough games and doing other boy things, Koleszar kept to himself and to his thoughts. As early as his pre teens, he had already felt some strange feelings that he knew were different from his peers. Of course he kept this as a secret because he feared not being accepted.

Probably his only saving grace in this time of confusion was his talent for painting. When he was already a teen, he was already a very skilled painter who had his works showcased in the city hall. The problem here is that his peers did not see painting as a masculine hobby and would always tease him and tell him that he was a disgusting homosexual.

Of course like any closet gay, he denied that he was one so that he would not get shunned. Of course the years went by and his mind struggled even more because his attraction to men became even stronger than before. With this, he decided to tell his family about his problem in hopes that they would help him figure things out for himself.

However, instead of helping out, they made things even worse. They thought that he had a mental disorder so they sent him to psychologists and counsellors. They also thought that maybe he had a hormone problem which is why he was attracted to men. So for this they sent him to a doctor who is specialized in the endocrine system.

Eventually when nothing could be done, his mother told him to change his name and then sent him away from home. From there, he found himself somewhere in Phoenix, Arizona where he would find a good art college wherein he could continue his education. It was also here that he was able to think properly.

He started studying in the Arizona State University and eventually got top honors in his class. Of course it was also during his college days that he met a young medical student who would then be his first love. Now one of the highlights of this time was his painting career as he was able to create many sets that would pull heartstrings of people.




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